What if you were finally free from porn?
HELPING CHRISTIAN MEN BREAK FREE FROM WATCHING PORN FOR GOOD AND TO LIVE LIVES OF FREEDOM @ShackleRoad
You Are Not Alone…
Looking to find freedom from porn, masturbation and lust?
I know you must be at the end of some proverbial rope or at least fed up enough that you have landed on this website.
No one looks for freedom on the happy path – no one.
And breaking porn addiction or the porn habit can be a great struggle, but you do not need to figure it out on your own.
That said, you are exactly where you need to be, because you need to know there is a way out of porn, masturbation and lust.
In fact gaining victory over porn is not as hard as you may think, but I also don’t want to paint a picture that it’s “watch these 3 videos and you can be free tomorrow”.
It takes some time, it takes some work, it takes beginning – all change does – and its easier when you have help.
TOPICS WE DISCUSS
Thoughts
Build on the WHO you’re becoming.
- Feed the mind with good things
- Bring those things to mind often
- Find healing for the broken areas
- Change our mindset
- Become more like Jesus
Routines
Build good routines into your life.
- Establish new daily and weekly routines
- Review how things are going regularly
- Setup preset decisions for known and unknown scenarios
- Raise your resilience
Hacks
Build creative and effective strategies.
- Understand how habits work
- Build tactics that thwart existing routines
- Learn to short circuit rewards for old habits
- Make new habits attractive and easy
- Raise your resilience using simple postures
Actions
Build an action plan and get after it.
- Small actions daily lead to success
- Identify when it is best to take action
- Learn how the intensity of action is equal to the intensity of the desire
- Freedom is worth fighting for
About Shackle Road
The goal of everything here is to help men break free from watching porn, lust and masturbation, so that we can be free – maybe even for the first time in our lives!
If you are struggling to find freedom from porn, masturbation or lust – you’re in the right place.
My name is Jay.
And as I say it – almost everywhere – to the point you’ll probably get tired of hearing it.
Jay here on Shackle Road. Where I discuss tips tactics and routines to help Christian men break free from watching porn for good and to live lives of freedom.
Allow me to break some of that down…
Jay?
Yep that’s me.
I began seriously struggling with online porn in 1998 while my wife was pregnant with our first child. It took 6 years to reach a breaking point where I came clean at a men’s retreat in 2004 – where I came forward publicly for the first time regarding my struggle to a hundred or so men.
It was a big turning point for me; leading me to find freedom from porn, and it set into motion a desire to see others find that freedom as well.
Shackle Road?
Shackles are like handcuffs, often binding both your feet and hands bound together – it is prison that allows you to move – though ours is often shrouded in secrecy and lies, so no one knows.
The Road is where you are – in the middle of no where, with no sense of where you are heading or whether you’ll even get there. Alone.
It is here on Shackle Road that you make your choice – in the midst of your struggle – to decide to continue down the path you are on or choose another.
It’s your choice…
Christian?
I’m a Christian and I approach quitting porn from that vantage point.
I believe the Bible is the Word of God, given to us to find life in Him – it provides an understanding of why we are here, why there is struggle and the way to a life of freedom through one man – Jesus.
Do you have to be Christian for my help?
Nope.
But I do think I make a strong case as to why it’s your best option in this life.
Where would you like to start?
FREE! Porn-Free Weekly Plan
Get your FREE copy of the My Porn-Free Weekly Plan helps build a good routine to keep you focused on what’s important during the week.
$19.99 The Complete Guide to Quitting Porn
Get this 40 page step-by-step guide walks you through everything you need to get moving – whether you’re just starting or looking to maintain what you’ve begun – this guide is for you.
$99/year Shackle Road Membership
Looking to go deeper and to be part of a group dedicated kicking porn out of their lives? The Shackle Road Membership is a private group where members have tough conversations, share encouragement and offers weekly check-ins. Only opens a few times a year to new members!
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