So it’s been 3 days, a week, a month, 6 months, a year and then bam! You gave in and found yourself watching porn and masturbating again. I’ve been there too – that feeling of failure, of shame, of why bother – you might as well do it again now, of why can’t I just […]
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I have this picture in my home office – it’s one of my favorites. I love that Jesus is walking on the water in his bare feet – and even more so, how odd it must have been for Peter to look up and see them. 😀 It brings to me so many imaginations –
In this video I am going to discuss how to share your struggle with porn, how to find a person to share it with; the qualities they should have, tips on how the conversation might go and more. Sharing your struggle is one of the most challenging things you will do in the process of
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In this video I am going to focus on 3 key decisions you should make in your journey to overcoming porn, and strategies on how to put them into action today. Having trouble finding success? At the end of this video, I will share a resource on how to seek others for help, so stick
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Video & Script In this video I am going to take you through the steps on how to get very clear on your ‘why’ – the reason you have behind wanting to quit watching porn. Not knowing the ‘why’ behind your trying to quit porn, masturbation or lust is like being in a sailboat with
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In the early parts of 2020, with Covid just beginning to impact life here in the US, I decided to set up a Minecraft server for our family. It turned out to be great fun – we are now on our third world since Covid. While I’ve had a Mojang account since my kids were
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As we approach the end of 2021 and the beginning of 2022, I cannot help but finding myself reviewing the year that has gone by (so fast) and thinking about what I want to do for the year ahead. Are you doing the same? If you have started your journey to becoming porn free, I
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It’s Christmas time. And I would like to draw attention to this young man standing next to his betrothed and her child – the savior of the world – who we celebrate today. His name is Joseph. Betrothed, is a fancy word for engagement. But it was not that simple in Joseph’s day. Their engagement
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The underlying enemy of our victory is our own lust. Lust feeds desire to our uncontrolled thoughts, then porn accentuates our production dopamine, to increase pent-up desire for release, and masturbation is our reward; releasing oxytocin. It is no wonder that finding victory is a challenge. There are many things we try along our way
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The holidays are coming! That means there will be many changes to our routines. Get togethers, meals and overnights with family and friends, time-off from work, staying up later and waking up later. The list goes on… For those of us who struggle with addictive habits – of any kind – including those who struggle
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